Behind the Scenes:
Written by Ella Pierce
On Thursday, July 3, at 8pm in the Johnson Theatre ten of the Governors Scholar Resident Advisors (RA’s) from Murray’s Campus shared a life-changing experience. Last week’s students heard stories from the faculty of the program. Yesterday, they got to hear stories from their hall leaders which some would say “hit a little deeper.” The program was hosted by RA Bennett, who introduced each RA and gave a preview of the story they would share.
First, RA Heather Denny, scholar of 2022 and student at the University of Kentucky shared her experience of homesickness. As scholars, we too face the challenge of being away from our family members and friends for five weeks. Heather shared that this challenge begins with an experience, a move in, and a goodbye. Her mom, one of the most influential people in her life, comforted her as she moved into her college dorm and cried herself to sleep at night. Heather encouraged scholars to lean on close friends and family during homesickness—and promised that it gets better.
Secondly, RA Dylan Street, scholar of 2021 and student at the University of Kentucky took the stage to share his journey of finding his identity. Speaking to a large group of people for only the second time, Dylan courageously spoke about coming out to his parents and community. He described his struggle of accepting himself enough to be open with others, hoping for acceptance in return. Even though some reactions were difficult, two of his best friends welcomed him with open arms–and that was enough. As he entered college, he experienced more freedom, “FINALLY” dating his boyfriend. Now, two years later Dylan is proud of who he has become and encourages any scholars navigating similar experiences to talk to him if needed.
Next, RA Uchechi Anyanwu, scholar of 2022 and student at Eastern Kentucky University brought humor into the room talking about “not taking yourself too seriously.” Growing up she was filled with anxious thoughts and insecurities, but as she got older she realized that when she fell it was okay to “laugh with the people around her” and get back up. This shift provided her with a new enjoyment of life and perspective in facing challenges. Her reflections struck a cord, especially for those in the “Everything is Academic” general studies class (cue the laughs).
Subsequently, RA Aleeza Ahmad, scholar of 2022, recent graduate of Union Commonwealth University, and upcoming student to Spalding University, brought tears to the room. Rejected by a society that was not accepting of same-sex attraction, Aleeza shared her painful struggles: lacking parental support, facing criticism, and battling overwhelming thoughts. Everything changed when she met her girlfriend, who showed her what true love, friendship, and support looked like. That relationship boldened her to embrace her identity.
RA Yaquelin (Jackie) Trejo Vazquez took the stage next. A 2023 scholar and student at Bellarmine University, Jackie inspired scholars to pursue friendships that uplift and challenge them. Jackie reflected on past friendships that led her astray. Standing firm, she ended those connections and sought out people who aligned with her values. Although she was stuck in seasons of loneliness and heartache, the friends she maintains now were well worth the wait.
Next, RA Shayna Bassi, scholar of 2022 and student at the University of Kentucky brought attention to a somber reality that many scholars face: racism. Coming from an unwelcoming hometown, Shayna shared the pain of being judged for her skin color and religion. But she found her voice–speaking out against injustice in front of teachers, peers, and her community. From this, starting college was a breath of fresh air, where she was finally seen for who she truly was. This experience continues to instill confidence within herself and her interactions with others today.
Following, RA Hannah Hash, scholar of 2023 and student at Western Kentucky University urged scholars to NOT consume leftover mac and cheese from Cracker Barrel. As a budget- conscious student, she saved every bit of food. However, she didn’t realize how the delicious noodles and creamy cheese dish would turn her life upside down. Hannah’s roommate had contracted the flu a couple weeks prior, so when Hannah started feeling poorly a week before her final exams she assumed that she had also caught the flu. Little did she know, two weeks of pushing off the doctor caused her condition to worsen. Finally rushed to the ER, her mind was swirling from the words her doctor said: “kidney failure…septic…you could have died…” Her mother, who drove from hours away, never left her side as Hannah went into operation. A long recovery ensued, which included emailing professors and strengthening herself enough to make it to finals in time. This experience taught Hannah to never take life—not even the little moments—for granted.
Succeeding this unforgettable account, RA Josh Gillespie, scholar of 2021 and student at Western Kentucky University surprised the audience by revealing he has a twin. But what seemed like a blessing became a life- long comparison trap. From grades to looks to talents, everything was a competition. Josh felt that nothing he did truly belonged to his own success. As both brothers followed different life paths, they realized that their distinctions made them unique and individually successful. Today, they celebrate each other’s achievements and support each other wholeheartedly.
Succeeding Josh, RA Keeley Pollard, scholar of 2021 and graduate student of Eastern Kentucky University shared a moving story about her mother’s cancer scare. Serving as her warrior and friend, Keeley’s mother is a constant stronghold in her life and to see her struggle was tough during big milestones in her life. But one thing is sure: her mom is still present and still Keeley’s biggest supporter to this day. This life-impacting event showed Keeley the importance of hugging those closest to you and making the most of the time that you have with your loved ones.
Lastly, Administrative Assistant Hayden Watkins, scholar of 2023, and student at Cornell University in Ithaca, New York. Hayden emotionally shared about his community’s disapproval of his identity. At the time, his city was experiencing riots against the LGBTQ community and related organizations. His father, a respected member of a city council, even expressed shame toward Hayden. The rioters threatened to kill him, and he was never more scared to be himself than at this point in his life. As he grew older, he felt like he had to hide in a shell. Despite this, he held onto hope that eventually his community became more accepting of him. That change took time and it required constant confidence in being true to himself.
A common thread in most of these stories was one powerful word: freedom. Each RA had a unique story to share, but each one contributed to the overarching idea that every success, failure, achievement, and challenge helped free them to become the people they are today. Scholars were both filled with joy and moved to tears as they listened, and many were inspired to learn from the RAs mistakes and triumphs. This deeply impactful night is sure to be remembered by many scholars as they reflect on their GSP journey.
Edited by Josiah Self